The Secret to Looking Stylish Isn't Your Clothes

Can you really "pull off" anything? I think so... and apparently that's one of my most controversial fashion opinions. In this video, I dive into why I think the whole idea of not being able to "pull something off" is mostly a myth, why confidence matters more than people realize, and how the Italian concept of sprezzatura (practiced nonchalance) might actually be one of the most important ideas in personal style. Along the way we talk about my new Burberry trench coat, Adam Sandler somehow becoming a style icon, Shia LaBeouf, Jonah Hill, fit pics, men's fear of judgment, all the hits, all the favorites. Again, this is apparently a very controversial take of mine, but I hope you'll watch the full thing and let me know if I've swayed you at all. And if not, let me know why in the comments. I have a feeling this one's going to be a fun debate. #mensfashion #styleadvice #sprezzatura #confidence 00:00 - Intro - "Pulling it off" is a fake idea 02:05 - The big problem: "I don't think I can pull that off." 04:16 - Just be confident, bro 05:09 - What the Burberry trench coat taught me about confidence 07:59 - Sprezzatura - How to be practice nonchalance 09:31 - Adam Sandler, Jonah Hill, and confidently bad fits 11:18 - Why "vibes-based" outfit critiques are totally valid 13:04 - Style tip 1 - Be bored 15:04 - Style tip 2 - Wear sunglasses 15:49 - Style tip 3 - Look to your elders 17:30 - Are there exceptions!? 18:38 - No escape from judgment 19:39 - Casual vs cost