How To Find Your Personal Style In 2026

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of personal style evolution and how to redefine your look during major life transitions. We explore everything from the viral Three-Word Theory by stylist Alison Bornstein to the Three Forces of Cool—a simple formula to ensure every outfit feels balanced and intentional. GET YOUR FASHION FIX: Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @nothingtowearpod Feedback? We’re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au CREDITS: Hosts: Lucinda Pikkat & Tamara Holland Producer: Ella Maitland & Zara Sengstock Audio Producer: Jacob Round Video Producer: Artemi Kokkaris Just so you know—some of the product links in these notes are affiliate links, which means we might earn a small commission if you buy through them. It doesn’t cost you anything extra, and it helps support the show. Happy shopping! Mamamia acknowledges the traditional owners of the land on which we have recorded this podcast. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - How Motherhood Changes Your Personal Style 00:31 - Who is Alison Bornstein? (The Three-Word Theory) 01:24 - Breaking Down the 3 Words: Base, Aspirational, & Practical 01:46 - Real Examples: Classic, Refined, and Sporty 02:10 - Combining Tension: Bohemian vs. Elevated Style 03:16 - Why Lifestyle and Style are Intertwined 04:22 - Small Tweaks to Make Any Outfit Look "Cooler" 04:50 - Adjectives to Help You Find Your Style Words 05:27 - The Three Forces of Cool: Class, Edge, and Ease 06:55 - Putting